I often hear this when working with couples. The truth is when they look for help their relationship has already deteriorated and the only light they see it "out".
Love is a decision and not a feeling. Love is working, changing, making it better and eventually more passionate.
Here are some tips on how to get your passion wheels turning again:
❣️ Turn yourself into a passionate being in everything you do!
❣️ Go on weekly date nights minus the kiddos
❣️ Try new things together: a new hobby, restaurant or town
❣️ Be adventurous in the bedroom - try new things often
❣️ Flirt, send sexy messages, get those sparks going again
❣️ Kiss passionately - pretend you are a movie star
❣️ Dress up for each other
❣️ Also dress down, Pijamas days are the best days!
❣️ Eliminate the stressors in your routine
❣️ Start each day with gratitude for that other person
If you would like more help please reach out. I have helped many couples in similar situations ❣️